Sorry to interfere but your last post really get's me! I does seem extraordinairy and is has looked that way since day 1. Leaving in that way is special (even in here) and it is not ok!
The no answers hurts, but we all have these! I speak to my, very amicable, W several times a week and see her often, but still I have all kind of questions that can't be answered - also about why she left, the way she left and so on! Many others have these questions, if not almost all of us! We think about our Ws and sits, we guess, we educate ourselves, we grow, talk to friends, we post in here, talk to Ts and so on searching for a lot of things and among them the answers to questions.
Maybe someday we will understand and maybe we won't. Maybe this knowledge will set us free and maybe it won't...I don't know and to be honest I do not think you know that for certain either. I am starting to believe that the only thing or person that truly can set you free - is you and nobody else. Even if you got a week with your W and the right to ask her all kind of questions - would you believe the answers?
Still I am left with the same question as prior....how will D get you anywhere closer to answering this or these questions? How will D set you free if that is what you are looking for?
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Me:44 W:43 D7, D5 (S11 from other R)
T: 8y - not M ILYB: 8. Mar 2013 W moved: 1. Aug 2013 LRT: 20. Aug 2013 _______________________________ Do or do not – there’s no try.
