Wow 25-I'm going to print this out and keep rereading it. 2 years! Ugh!

I understand the 'spiraling'. It's so easy to get caught up in that. Melissa and I have similar timelines. She has had an awesome thread to follow. Very honest and relatable.

Your words from experience are exactly what I needed right now. Thanks!

Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014