Thanks AS. I will speak with jody more tonight. I am sure that I should really sit still now. Keep pressing forward in my own life.

I do see a positive that she spoke about wanting out and having NO INTEREST in this M anymore a month ago to voicing the struggle that if she came home she wants to know its not going to fall apart. I second that. I never want to feel like this again if possible.

me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14