First, glad you took the advice not to send the letters. I think it's good for you to write them but don't send them. Keep them for your own personal growth. Letters rarely have any effect on inlaws.
This is a long process, She said she wanted this wrapped up by the new year. The WAW says a lot of things. The reality is that it will take time.
My ex took 2.5 years to finally file. Yes 2.5 years.
I don't believe the WAW spends too much time thinking about how fast they want a D.
Hang tight, detach and prepare for either outcome. Trust me, regardless of the out come, you will be just fine.
gr8
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
