Job: Yep, I will look into other avenues now. And whether its good DBing or not, I am going to ask if he has followed up to file for unemployment too.

Bright: I know, the job thing could really probably send him either way. Deeper into the cave and holding on to the OW and the escape, OR maybe realizing he needs to turn the crazy train before things really do fall apart irreparably. No way to know until it happens. Of course the extra crappy bit is, we have no insurance now to help foot the bill for counseling if he DID in short order decide to return.

Based on the argument this morning, he seems determined that he needs more time.

Back when he locked the keys in the car (10 days post BD or so) he mentioned to me that he had briefly feared that it was an "omen" that he was making a bad choice. Getting laid off one day after the three month anniversary of your "bomb drop" night... I wonder if that will be seen as an omen. One can only hope.


me-35
WAS-37
T-16 1/2
Son-14 (HF Aspergers)
BD,ILYBINILWY,"I met my soulmate": Oct5,2013
"Letting go because I love him, holding on because I love him."