I think in your w's mind, what's there to say? She got your email and pretty much must have meant "too little too late" or some such message she feels is clear thru her actions.
I admit there is SOME Clarity in a non response...just not the kind of thought out delineation you seem to want and need, like most of us. But then, there often comes a time when we no longer care WHY they do what they do.
We learn our own lessons about what WE need/want to change and we do it for ourselves.
I guess my question to you is,
what is it you need to understand from your w? What don't you "get"?
Give it some thought before blurting out the first answer. B/c her silence really is a message of sorts. TO her, it may be obvious.
So, after some thought, tell me what she's Not telling you, if you don't mind.
Hope this helps.
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