I just want to take a moment and say thank you to everyone here. This site helped me get through the most difficult time in my life.
Although I am not standing for my marriage any longer, I will continue to check in here to see how everyone is doing.
My wish is that your M's will be one of the lucky ones that make it through to the other side of the tunnel. The hope and guidance that this site gives so freely of, probably helped save my life and keeps me from giving up on the notion that two people can make each other happy. Even through our most trying time in our marriages.