Reaching out for support and advice 2

[bluesgal]

I am breathing a lot. Trying to let go, but what a process. My plan is to give as much space as possible. To try to build some routines in the home where we ask about eachothers day again. Keep having family suppers.

If my H spews anger or shows dishonesty, I will ask him to leave our home. I will no longer tolerate verbal abuse or being lied to. I feel very strongly about this.

I had such awful feelings about being taken advantage of before and the cake eating was bothering me and creating resentments. I will allow time/space, but do need to have some respect.