Were you a selfish, self-centered jerk? It's OK to admit that if you were, We have to do that moral inventory before we can begin to fix things.
Yes I was Sometimes. But not all the time/everyday. I was there for her, the boys, helping out around the house, cooking, cleaning, caring for her if she was sick/hurting, being an active father.
Originally Posted By: labug
So this morning I told her that I will find a sitter for this weekend. and this is good. have you ever gotten a sitter before? I mean you personally taken responsibility for it? That's quite a 180 and again, taking responsibility for you and being an active involved father.
Well yes, but its my mom, thats about it. Both of us dont really know any good sitters (or we dont trust them) so its either mine or her moms who watches them for us.
Originally Posted By: Positivespin
Yes, you had a part to play but she has "checked out". In time she may be more open minded....just not right now. Its the complete opposite of what you FEEL you should be doing.
I guess, it just dosent feel right, coming and going in order to GAL like Im doing.
Me: 39 W: 33 M: 9 years T: 10 years S7 S10 BD 10/19/13 W Filed 11/25/13 EA Confirmed 2/2/14 (no evidence of PA) WAW moved out 3/15/14
