Yes, I agree with Betsey. He loves you and his kids the only way he knows. This is probably his best. He and your sons will have a R but it may not be what you would like to see their R be.
I'm realizing that my R with my grown sons is going to be very different from what I might have imagined when they were young. But even as I type that, I'm realizing that I really don't know that. Life is full of twists and turns we can only take care of today.
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My takeaway is i should have kept out of it, and let h holler from the stove and take it from there. I assumed he had something time sensitive and i got in the middle and shouldnt have. Old habits die hard. But i'm aware and trying to train myself better.
Yes. I often have to remind myself not to insert myself in their (H,Sons) R.
Ad, are you thinking that there must be really something wrong with you to have been in a M with this flawed man?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
