Slap the guilt out of yourself my friend. I KNOW its tough sir- I KNOW!!!!!!!

She wants to play the victim card. She wants to feel that its 100% YOUR fault for the ruining of the family.

Yes, you had a part to play but she has "checked out". In time she may be more open minded....just not right now. Its the complete opposite of what you FEEL you should be doing.

GO GET THE BOOK!

ME 38 W 37
T18 M5
D3
BD 1/7/13
PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing
2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13
W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13
First mediation appt 12/19/13