I don't want to come off as pursuing. I am not going to pursue her.
I know this is mind reading, but this probably doesn't have anything to do with me. I assume she is feeling somewhat alone. Sure, she has OM and many new friends, but none of them come with the long term connection that she had with the friends and family she left behind, when she walked out that door. I would imagine that has to stack up on a person. She sounded very hurt that my sister did not want her dropping by. She feels like a complete outsider, which more or less she is. She has made several comments on social media, even going as far as posting on the funeral home obituary, that she is "family". For a reason I am not sure of, she still wants to be considered one of the family.
I will call her this morning at some point. If anyone has some more input, I could really use all the support I can get. I want to do this right.....for a change. I don't want to go in with the wrong words or speak out of emotion.