I need some advice. W dropped by the condolence package she put together. It was quick and impersonal. Met at the door, exchanged the package and some mail. Said hi, how are you, sort of like neighbors. After she left, she phoned. I wasn't sure why she was calling. We usually text, and I had just spoke with her in person, only minutes before. She had a few questions about the funeral, daughter attending, that sort of thing. She seemed upset, so I asked how she was doing. She broke down and expressed how she had been part of this family for 13 years. She said she felt she had lost everyone, and it sucked. I wasn't sure what to do with that, other than show her some support by saying I would be there for her if she needed me. I listened and I validated. We both got emotional, tears, weeping. Then, the doorbell rang, and I had to let her go. I said that I would call her back. It is now too late to call, so I am simply going to save it for another time.
I am considering sending her a text, but I don't know what to say. Should I try to reach out to her a little? Should I call? Should I text? Should I just let it go, and leave the chips where they lay? I just don't know how to handle this. We have been completely out of personal contact for a long time now. I literally don't know what to say to her....Help!
