Get a lawyer sweetheart. I waited far to late and it cost me dearly. They will take funds to support themselves. WAS's don't care. The math is not in their head because they don't care. Debt will grow. Protect yourself. He is irrational as demonstrated by his lack of judgement with his GF and your kids. He's an idiot. Look after yourself and your babies. It will work out. I have had 3 years of pain but it is working out now. Just took me a while to get on the rails. Wish I protected myself sooner. And as others have said, this has nothing to do with you or who you are. They will make you the bad one to justify themselves. You are awesome and you can do this.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
