labug, thank you so much for updating your story. I'm still trying to get to the point of deciding how much of my life I should give to my xh, but I know it's less than I have been.
Detaching is hard, but I know I have to do it for myself. And it's great to see that doing so doesn't have to mean that there is no chance of reconciling.
I'm so happy for you!
Thanks, SBR.
Being your own person opens up a brave, new world.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
