Perspective - The Reality of the Trip

[labug]

The FEAR was that I would be alone. Not that I would lose my W, but that I would be alone and unloved by anyone.

I would like to point this out ^^^ to newbies and other posters who are struggling with detachment. This is a VERY important point in the DBing process. Far too many times, I see posters getting stuck and stay stuck precisely because of the fear being alone.

Once a person gets past this particular fear, DBing and detachment become much more easier. Because one knows he/she is gonna be okay either way. That is often when situations turn around because the WAS senses this change in the air.

For all you newbies and stuck people, keep chipping away at this fear of being alone. Get to the other side of this fear and you'll be truly okay.

I second that.