"Having sex can't be as bad as smashing your thumb with a hammer,"

For some people it is. Just because it's not like that in your relationship doesn't mean that it doesn't happen. Again, there were many LBSs who come on here that just didn't think sex was a priority. How many times have you seen people say "oh I didn't know sex was important to him/her, etc.".

"so refusing to do it at all, when you're capable of it, is something I just can't understand."

Then you also should also read the information before commenting about how it's no big deal. It's a big thing. Why do you think MWD actually wrote a book about it?


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Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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