Bug, everything you wrote in your last post resonates with me. My H is one of those who makes up his mind and stick to the decision. He is not filing for D and I also get an impression that he waits for me to do it. We also communicate mostly via e-mail and his last visit was uncomfortable.

I’ve reading your updates with the great interest. Sometimes I think that if I would be in your situation, I would be very worried and unsecure about whether I could trust H again, worried about him changing his mind again. I’m glad that you feel that things are working out for you and you are having fun with H.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state