Oh my gosh that man is dense. I have been saying for months we needed to work out a schedule of who was responsible for s on what nights and he kept resisting. After the nightmare llast night I brought it up again this morning. I told him right now we were both obviously too emotional to have a casual arrangement and we needed a more structured schedule. Just now I called to tell s I had to work late. H asked for clarification on schedule idea. He asked if it meant that I wouldn't come home on his nights. I said not necessarily but I wouldn't need to rush home. He said "so on your nightd I can do whatever I want and on my nights you can do whatever you want?" I mean is it really such a difficult concept?
I also tried 4 lawyers today and they all wanted 200 to 300 for a consult so I will need to save up just for that.
Me 44 H 42 M 10 T 12 (at time of BD) Ss 20 16 S11 (special needs)
BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom 10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied S and I move out 3/15
