Newbie needs help:husband left Saturday

[dxw689]

Thanks so much, all. I don't know how you get the energy to do all the things like check into professional help (like lawyers), on top of doing more of the care for the kids yourself and continuing to try to do my job, since I need to support us virtually on my own now that he has his own separate apartment. Yes, he gave me some "support" funds last month - but not enough to sustain and - it does not seem to occur to him that it might be financially difficult for us both individually now that he has obtained for himself a new 3 BR apartment with basement and fireplace and new furniture - and I need to maintain our own 4 BR home on my own? I don't know how the math is adding up in his head...