Hey Angela - I think we all kind of go through that process during all of this. It's par for the course.
Looked at another way, we have in our mind what the boundaries are, but until we're tested, there's no way to really know what our boundaries are.
T2 - yep, seems you're getting more wise as time goes on. Might want to look into getting some hair dye soon.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."