Your thought is very similar to 2old thread - Hardened heart. He's at the same point as you, whether or not to file for D. Do you need a D? Are you seeing someone else and want to get serious with them? That will be the only time I will need a D is when I get serious with someone else and want to move on. D is an expensive process and if you can wait longer then it could be cheaper in the long run. Have a look at 2old's thread as well
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!