He is unhappy. He has problems with trust issues and that trust issue will rear its ugly head once in a blue moon. We'd argue about trust from time to time but I was always able to calm him down. As for the D nine years after, I believe it's because I am upping the commitment level. I told him last year that I wanted to start a family. That would tie us for life. He's starting up a few new businesses that should take off this year. I hate to think this way, but I believe he wants this D because he doesn't want me to have access his assets should I leave him for someone else. I have never given him reason to doubt me after that, but he can't seem to forgive and let go of the past.


H: 43
W: 31
Married: 10 yrs
BD: 10/6/2013

"Hearts are not had as a gift but hearts are earned
By those that are not entirely beautiful"
-William Butler Yeats