My H is starting to complain that I am bad at responding to texts and answering his calls. I have simply responded that I was busy and I honestly really was. H texted last night and I responded a few hours later. His text did not need a response all. He merely said to give the boys a hug and that he cant wait to celebrate S5's birthday." I would not have texted back at all, except that S5 broke down in tears because he wanted H to put him to bed. I just let him know what happened with S5 and that S5 would be excited to celebrate with him. H broke back ten minutes later, but I had already fallen asleep. H called me this morning dispute me telling him that I was in a meeting. He knew about the meeting because I could not go to S5's class birthday party due to the meeting so H went. He called right after he left the school. He just called me at work to talk about our plans to celebrate S5's birthday and he mentioned that I am horrible at responding to text/calls. I explained the circumstances. It is H's pet peeve when people dont response because his phone is glued to his hand. This is not the first time he has mentioned it. It is so annoying because he calls me out on it, when he often does not respond my emails. I pointed out that I sent him an email the other day, which contained an actual question about logistics, and he did not respond at all. How should I continue to DB without completely pissing him off? Any advice?
