Reading all that you have written here, I believe that there is still hope for your marriage to survive. Michele Weiner-Davis says that you can "divorce the old marriage and begin a new one with the same partner". In the end of your post, it seems as if your spouse referred to the same concept. I urge you to seek the advice of a Divorce Busting coach as soon as possible. There is so much that can still be done to save your marriage. Please call me to discuss our coaching program. 303-444-7004
Roberta, Resource Coordinator The Divorce Busting Center 303-444-7004 Roberta@divorcebusting.com