HARDENED HEART CONTINUES 6 - 7 MONTHS OF REFLECTI

[Fartiltre]

Hi 2,

well, good point F...Waiting wont make a difference as far as I can tell at this point.

Trust me this one: I get you!!! I understand! But then stop waiting and start living. As long as the M doesn’t interfere with the life you want to live then just let it be. At the moment the M starts interfering the consider D once again.

I guess when you are being completely ignored with absolutely no reaching out from her end, you get just get tired of being treated in that manner.

Yup! But how on earth would D help on that feeling…please explain this to yourself. You are more than welcome to share here and I will comment on your thoughts if you would like me to.

In my mind it is undeserved and unwarranted on her part. She left on her terms which any normal person would look at and deem most inapropriate.

How will D help on that?
Do you believe it will make these feelings go away
Will it make you feel any better about how she has treated you?

The point is I'm tired of the sitch anymore. Wait, wait, wait, for what?

Stop waiting and start living once again! Consider the marriage over and go out into life. It is out there!

It's almost like being a deer in the woods with a hunter just sitting in his tree stand. The deer at some point comes into the clearing and BAM!! Or the deer never comes into the clearing and the hunter justs sits and waits, for how long?

I am a hunter and I have spent so many hours in a treestand without seeing anything at all, but still knowing that the deer is in the forest. That’s why I rarely sit in the tree stands anymore. I like to walk the forest, highland or wherever I am. I like enjoying, smelling, seeing, tasting the nature….So this is a nice metaphor to use IMO!
Get down from the tree stand and start enjoying the nature by walking in it….who knows: The deer might still come by

All the best
F