I can relate to the "life is not fair" about being a part-time parent, which I did not sign up for. It is the life I now know.

Unfortunately, it is the reality of these situations. Hopefully it will change for the two of you and this is only a temporary setback.

That being said, you have a choice. You can remain angry about the unfairness and hope to get your spouse to see that perspective or you can accept it and make the best of your time with your children. I can assure you, being angry will not get you closer to your goal. I also realize, that those emotions must be processed. So process those emotions and discard them.

Positive and confident are attractive. Angry and bitter are not.

Me:45 ExW:48
M:04/97
3 Bombs & 2 ReCons
1st BD 11/10
D Finalized 4/20
D-16 S-14
Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa