Finally....

I said all or nothing, he said that is not what we agreed upon initially and that he needs a couple of days to think about it.

I said in does not mean you can never be out, it just means trying instead of floating along.

But I also said I understood if what I was asking was out of his reach to give.

I swear to god that man has never made a decision in his life without it being made for him. I'm sure he has, but it doesn't look like it from my end smile