of course he has not made a tough decision on his own yet. They have all been forced, as this one is partially
I've done this a few times with W in the past. Especially when I was feeling stagnant in limbo or that "Come on already!!!" feeling that we all get. The shnit or get off the pot scenario. With my sitch, when I tried to push her away from the cake, it usually got a little worse before it got better.
But keep you head up on that if it happens (and since your H and my W graduated from the same tortoise school) he just might close up and back off before opening up and getting even closer.
Guess I'm saying... watch the expectations.
Me(F):40 WAW:44 T:13yrs M:9yrs BD:2/12 (I saw a text) ILYBINILWY: 5/12 PA admission: 12/12 (began 3/11) S:2/13 Moves in w/AP D begins: 7/13 W moves home to R: 10/13