RL, Good luck w/your surgery today. I hope that your vision is corrected this time for you. It's been a long, bothersome road for you.
As for your h, I about died laughing about the new apartment, spackling, etc. RT has her own slave and he's too stupid to see what she's doing, i.e., using him for all he's worth. Gotta love it and yet feel sorry for the man because life as he knew it will never be the same.
Please take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.