Wif wants Divorce, I do Not 2

[woundedfool]

I think DB/DR will help me, not the marriage at this time. Same as GAL or 180.

EXACTLY!

Don't know how I'll feel if it keeps going on but it's up to her.

EXACTLY!

Plus, while its one thing to set a goal. Be careful of setting up expectations (as well as time frames). Just keep taking one day at a time.

Don't know what MIL wanted to talk about yesterday. Going to call her back today.

I want to give you some guidance on this.... Do your best to keep the conversation about your relationship with them. In my sitch, I steered clear of discussing the M with them, other then making it crystal clear I would meet anytime, anywhere for MC.

If they want to tell you about her and how shes doing (as long as you can hear it) go ahead, but I would not (and did not) follow it up with questions.