I have not gotten a DB coach. Do you guys think it is worth it? Part of me says 'money is no object to save my marriage' part of me says 'am i throwing good money after bad'.........

I would be willing to do it if you guys thought it helps immensely.
Willing to do pretty much anything I think would help.

me 41 w43
married 20 years
BD 10/10/13 ILYBNILWY....
4 kids, 21,18,8,6