On more thought, I keep focused on the knowledge that my marriage and relationship with my W are so much more than the experience of the affair. My marriage was never defined by that in the first decade and it is not defined by it now.
A's, MLC's, addictions, these things do not define our marriages. They are simply things we go through and grow from. We decide whether or not to embrace that growth.
Me(F):40 WAW:44 T:13yrs M:9yrs BD:2/12 (I saw a text) ILYBINILWY: 5/12 PA admission: 12/12 (began 3/11) S:2/13 Moves in w/AP D begins: 7/13 W moves home to R: 10/13
