Aiming higher than a glow worm for 2014

[Not Quitting]

There's been a couple of strange conversations with H over the last few days, both of them initiated by him.

The first was Sunday evening after he had been at the house all afternoon visiting our son. While he was around I had been chatting briefly online with an FB friend on my phone. It seems he thought I was hiding the phone from him. Anyway his text that evening was "I take it from the texting and the fact you kept hiding your phone that you have a new beau. I wish you all the best. You deserve it". A later text was along the lines of "I made my choice knowing there was NO coming back. I wish I could give you want but I can't. I tried but it didn't feel right anymore."

It was a female friend and I wasn't aware that I came across as hiding my phone as I did nothing different than I do when he's not around. Both that friend and I think its funny that he seems to be jealous .

The second conversation was last night when he dropped round to pick up some tax and financial paperwork he needed. He again stated that he is never coming back and then went on to give me his blessing to date and to move on with my life. What? Really? He says he's not jealous, it's not his style, and that he really does think I deserve better than he can offer. His last comment was that he'd really like it if I could find someone who really appreciated me and he hoped that one day I would remarry.

Neither of the conversations really bothered me. I just find it strange that the conversation coincided with him collecting financial information. I guess time will tell what he's thinking or planning.