Perspective - The Reality of the Trip

[melissag]

RT, you are amazing . . . truly an example of a spouse only a fool would leave, and an inspiration to the rest of us DBers. That's great that your W has recognized that she needs to do some personal work, and is wiling to do it. Something most of us only wish our WASs would do! I guess I have to give her some credit, too . . . as I know all too well, it's not so easy to acknowledge the need, or to wade through the ugly muck.

RT, how did you manage to let go of the anger and resentment I am sure you must have felt about your W's A and everything she put you through for so long?