Set that boundary, be clear, be in control of you.

Yay for you. But don't kid yourself, it's not going to be easy initially. Be prepared for him to lash out.

But that's about his needs, not yours. Let him lash and stick to your boundary.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss