Four weeks in, hopeful but just starting!

[KGirl]

Thanks, Cadet. I feel like I know what I need to do after re-reading DR so many times.. but actually doing it is so hard! It's probably not detaching if I'm wondering every day if today's the day I'll come home and he says he has an L appointment, or what it means that he hasn't mentioned anything about our R/D in a week now. But, hard to keep those thoughts out of my head. Guess I have to get busier (which should be easier to do now that it doesn't feel like -50 degrees outside!)