M, I am just catching up. 25 says great things. I too need to hear it. I know where you are coming from. one thing that helps me is remembering it is such a script. I too think my h has moved on. h likes to say,time to move forward. he does not want to see or face what got him to this point. only that he is here and doesn't want to look back.I agree with 25. what h is losing is way more....my kids know/see my commitment, love, forgiveness. My kids see me sometimes being sad( which is ok- this is a sad time)but they also see me being strong. Doing things, making plans. They know my expectations of them. They know I have gratitude and appreciation for life. I pray for h. I pray that he finds his happiness and peace.
M48 H50 M21 T26 S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old PA confirmed 7/2012 H separates 9/2012 H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY OW still in picture. h filed 10/13
