One more comment. I am NOT saying it is the wifes biblical "Duty" to take care of a mans sexual needs. It is not a question of "Duty". I am saying that when you express a deeply felt need to someone who loves you that they will "Want" to take care of your need.
Taking care of your need will bring them Joy. They will desire to do it. It will be no "Duty" at all.
If taking care of your needs is viewed by your spouse as a "Duty" that brings her no Joy, then there is a bigger issue.
