You are all right. Thank you. He is a completely different level of mean/scary when drunk. I need to call an L to find out about taking S out of state.

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15