Was thinking this morning.... 'Why am I divorced?'
I don't drink. I don't gamble. I don't flirt around. I listened to her whenever she wants to talk. I'm not a fantastic father but not a terrible one either. I mean I took care of the kids, put them to sleep, give them baths, feed them, talk to them, etc.. I give my all, financially, to W I'm not unkind. I'm not lazy. I don't say bad things about other people.
Am I such a terrible person that XW is so repulsed that she no longer wants me? Do I have some really bad character flaw that she feels divorcing me is the answer?
I noticed every time XW talk about our failed marriage, she almost immediately lays all problems on my mom. Maybe 80% of the time. The rest would be my fault and sis's. Now she even blames bro for defending mom.
I know we've talked about 180 changes very early on. I'm not particularly a sensitive person. Not Casanova. I'm quiet. I'm an introvert. What else I'm not noticing? XW is not very clear on my faults and character flaw. Do I need to dig deeper?
M35 XW34 D5 D4 M 6years T 10years Bomb 5/2013 Joint Petition signed 6/2013 Moved out end of 8/2013 Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013 D finalized in 3 months - no news yet
