Job he isn't giving me an allowance. He never did anything with the account and routing number. There were crickets after I provided them.
My daughter and I focused on cleaning , cooking, and baking today.
I made a huge pot of chicken soup, and a vegan chili. Served it with multi grain bread, warmed in the oven. My daughter made a batch of vegan brownies...they were awful, we laughed about it. It wasn't her fault, it was the recipe ...YUCK!
Sister in law gave me some insight and was very loving. Both brothers were awesome tonight. Oldest daughter was herself.
Boy, he is textbook MLC. He has really pulled away from his family. For him and this family it is VERY odd. His family was truly deserted/abandoned. His father wrote a Dear Jane from Vietnam, and did NOT provide any money. She had to contact his C.O. and he was garnished immediately. Her father was a WWI and WWII Vet. A three star General. He was there on the black sands of Iwo Jima.
You know the famous photo of the three men raising the flag? Well I have original black and whites on the black sands. His grandfather and two other officers are in that photo, to the side. They were cropped out of the picture that everyone thinks is just the three men!
After my H's dad abandoned the family, they rallied and became extremely tight. The brothers especially.
My sis-in-law, youngest brother's wife, said her h. was just told two days ago. That my husband is being tight lipped and has pulled away. He is feeling bewildered. I shared with her that I still loved my H. and that he is hurting, confused, and struggling.
I did not want a divorce, but I have to protect myself and try and save the house.
She said if I needed anything or wanted to come out and just get a way, to let her know and to come on out.
We had a very nice evening, laughed , ate, had wine and dessert. We played another board game, and fun was had by all.
They have a lab, and I told them to bring him along. My five munchkins were such great hosts and hostesses! The lab felt right at home. At one point he was getting a bit distressed, it was his bedtime. You could tell he wanted to go upstairs and to sleep.
I went and got a huge duvet cover , threw it on the ground, and he was so happy to nest in it!
It felt really good having them here, and there were zero awkward moments.
Formerly Workinprogress H :55 M :over 29 yrs. Together : 33 D : college D : adult BD and left : May 2013 Separated Experimenting/Replay
