I wasn't offended, took it as a joke…sometimes things read differently than you would have said them and can be taken as offence by misinterpretation.

I don't recall reading that, perhaps it's a sign I should re-read the book. I don't think this is going to change things.

I think she's just reaching out because it's been a while…at least I tell myself that so I can believe she hasn't found anyone else wink

I've been suspicious of that for a long time, perhaps this is a positive sign that I was wrong even if it doesn't change the sitch.

Resentment occurs when we aren't doing what we need to care for ourselves, though we expect others to do it for us.