H has had OW staying with him since right before Christmas (she is in grad school out of state and will be here until next Sat). He didn't tell me she was coming until the day before she was coming (which was 2 days before Christms). He asked me how I wanted to handle her being here and holidays. I told him I would go with what he chose. He decided to come here for Christmas. He had also chosen to come over here on his days with the kids (after me offering in order to spare my children being introduced to OW in this way).
I'm now questioning my offer and realize I'm enabling him to carry on this vR with OW. It is only one more weekend this would occur . Do I just let it go? Do I say something to him about how I'm feeling about enabling? I've already stated my displeasure with his R with OW.
I've also learned H and OW drink almost every night (which H was doing almost nightly prior to and since leaving). Makes me question the nature of thrir R (? MLC...H is 39/OW 24..H working on doctorate/OW in grad school)
I'm also questioning continuing on this whole DB journey despite H possibly thearing my points of making it work, considering the marriage (as stated in above posts.
