I felt the same way during the past year before we separated in Dec. W did whatever the heck she wanted. I didn't stop her. what do YOU want? I am beginning to ask myself the same question now that she's gone. If your H was not a factor (through magic he disappeared) who would you be and what would you do?
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14