Met with my IC tonight. Went well. he complimented my efforts to GAL and continue to focus as much as possible on self examination and improvement.
one thing I feel that I would say is sometimes people can come across like "we are the reason for our crumbling marriages..." when in fact it takes two. the only thing you can do is own what YOUR part in the M was/is. you can't do anything about the other half. I'm getting it.


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14