Nik,

Your posted focused on sex and recreational companionship. Those are 2 of the ones listed, but did your H prioritize his top 5? I think the emotion/passion when ML can come from other needs as well. You have to work at meeting all of his top emotional needs.

It also may help to think about past experiences when you noticed he was really passionate and emotional. Think about what made him feel that way.

Another thing you could do is to try to create some of the passion by doing things and ask him if he likes what you did. Maybe he will open up then, just a thought.

The other thing I would mention is that men really enjoy feeling like there W are satisfied and pleased by them. Men NEED to feel and know this from thier W. I would really look into how your need for sexual fulfillment is being met, and also try to make a consious effort to let him know you satisfy him sexually if you aren't already doing so.

Just some thoughts, hope it helps.


God Bless You, Reuben Cautiously hopeful and keeping the Momentum