I don't think your email falls under pursuing. I would file it under cheerleading. Looks like your H may be doing a little pursuing! Keep up the good work.
Last time I was at the salon getting the gray covered up, there was a nice looking man getting the same treatment. We talked a bit and he ended up asking me if I'd like to have coffee. Guess he thought I was single ... I took my wedding ring off when I found out about OW. I politely declined but what an ego boost!! It is so nice to be reminded that you do still have it, isn't it!
I didn't know you did web design. I do that too. I took some courses several years ago, but never put it into use for anyone but our own sites. Good luck. That's a good avenue to pick up a little spending cash.
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Me: 59 and holding H: :53 Me: 1 S, 1 D, both grown M: 19 T: 23 BD: 9-23-2013