What are we allowed to ask? What conversations are we allowed to bring up regarding our sitches? I have some summer job considerations in the works, but before I can commit I need to know where I will be in life and where I will be living. He hasn't said a word about anything. I kind of think he is no longer interested in separating, but he is also not interested in repairing. If we separate I am out on the streets. I will most likely have to leave the county because I can't afford housing around here. And therefore accepting a summer job around here won't make any sense. The pay won't be worth the commute.

I know I still have time before it becomes a truly pressing issue, but it really [censored] to have no idea where things are headed. I am getting letters from employers asking for commitments and it is stressing me out. I hate the status quo, but at least there is predictablity in it.


40s 2teens M14Y
BD-10/12/13 rec-1/14
BD2-5/14 rec2-9/14
EA disc-10/14 4/15-BD 3 and triangulation ensues
Served with D6/15 MS forced to leave7/15
D agreement signed 8/16 final 5/17