Thank you SO MUCH for your posts!! It's great to get a man's perspective, especially 2!!!
I am very quick and now exactly what I want. My H is not that way. H is a perfectionist and a dreamer. So your perspective was right on. I really needed to hear that.
I will not bring up the questionare again. I will wait to see what H does. I like your idea of monitoring the results. I have lost sight of that from DB/DR.
I do know, when I don't ask him questions in general, I do get positive results. I can tell he would like the house to stay cleaner; however, our kids are 3 and 5 yrs. old. But, I will try harder.
